Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Starting RIGHT not RELIGIOUS


This morning, my sweet Eden woke up at 6am. Normally, her wake up time is between 6:45am - 7:45am. I fell for the deception that each morning would carry the same routine. This morning, my routine was thrown off and the ugly monster of my sin of religion came down like softball size hail on my heart. Please allow me to explain.

For the past 8 years, I have blocked out about an hour each morning for much needed devotional time to my Lord. Some days changed, but for the most part the schedule was consistent. My quiet times consist of Scripture reading, praying, journaling, and reading books to help me understand the Word better. I usually drink about a half pot of coffee in that time. This routine started after a challenge by my BFF Jonathan in the summer of 2002. His challenge was to try better consistency with my morning times with the Lord. I'm so glad I took that challenge. I love the mornings.

Well, I've learned as a new father that my desires can often be selfish. Some may argue that having consistent time each morning with the Lord is the main priority of the day. In most ways, I would agree. However, I've noticed that my routine can sometimes be the sin of religion hidden in complacent expectations. If I'm used to having an hour of devotion and then because of unexpected events, that time is shortened, why do I get upset? Why do I believe that time is my time without any interruptions? Why do I get in a bad mood when I'm thrown off my routine? I believe it is because of my sin of religion.

This morning, Eden woke up and changed my routine. I loved it. I walked into her dark room and watched her do her morning dance while making her joyful noises. Her dance consists of kicking her feet in the air and moving her shoulders back and forth. She looked at me with her gorgeous blue eyes and even giggled some. I loved it. I believe the morning started out RIGHT. Instead of rushing her to fall back asleep, I enjoyed the grace of being a father. Instead of stressing out because I didn't have time to write in my journal or read a few chapters in the Word, I enjoyed the blessing of new life waking up to blissful unknowns. Instead of praying for my needs and expectations, I held her in my arms and prayed for the grace of my Lord to one day save her. I started the morning out RIGHT, and praised my Father for the love He placed in my soul in being Eden's father.

Eden fell back asleep and I had about an hour to spend with my Lord. Another lesson learned today. May religion not stick it's ugly head in my soul anymore. May worship not be defined in morning rituals but rather heartfelt devotion to the only One that is mighty to save. May serving my daughter and loving her draw me to sweeter times with my Father in glory.

Psalm 63 really jumps out at me with this post. Take a few minutes and read it. Live in the RIGHT and avoid the RELIGIOUS temptations of the day.

Soli Deo Gloria!

Dave

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Jaw is still on the floor

My jaw is still on the floor. That's all I can say still after this past Sunday. Since January, the Holy Spirit has overwhelmed me with joy over the impact of the Young Preachers Society in my church. For the past 5 months, close to 10 different young preachers from high school took the pulpit and proclaimed the excellent Word of our Lord. This past Sunday was the culmination of an excellent adventure. 3 corporate worship services with 3 young preachers from the society. The result? Well, my jaw is still on the floor.

All 3 young preachers had the Word of God marinaded on their souls to where the flavor of His truth was poured out to His church. I didn't hear flashy stories or pointless humor. I didn't hear classless insults or prideful boasting. I didn't see superficial expressions or separated illustrations. What I saw and heard was the gracious voice of my Lord found in His Word with the help from His anointed young preachers. All 3 had the Word memorized and maintained in it's right context. All 3 were excited about their responsibility. All 3 took the pulpit with great humility. All 3 gave glory to the One that defines the Word. All 3 accurately showed the weight of sin and the sufficiency of Christ, the Victor. (All 3 opened my eyes to my first sermon 12 years ago. What a tragedy, that was!)

My jaw is still on the floor. I'm amazed by the power of my Lord. I hope the legacy that I attempted to leave will show my church that I was out preached by 3 guys who are at least a decade behind me. I pray my church will see the treasure of true student ministry; not in games or events, but in the display of the eternal worth of Christ found in the hearts of teenagers. I believe the Young Preachers Society painted that picture brilliantly this past Sunday.

I hope what Paul wrote to Timothy was what I left at Summit; "You, however, have followed my teaching, my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my steadfastness." 2 Timothy 3:10

My jaw is still on the floor.

Soli Deo Gloria!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Church; Biblical or Clique...ical?


If you have followed me in the past few weeks, you are probably aware that my time at my church is coming to an end. Last night was my final Wednesday night worship time with my students. I'm eternally grateful for the grace my Sovereign Lord has given me to preach His Word for the past 4 1/2 years at Summit. Last night, I challenged my students and adult leaders to think about the church. Are we Biblical...or (brace yourself, I made up this word) Cliqueical? Do we live by the Biblical model of church...or do we enjoy the selfish pleasures of being in a clique with church as its title? Below, I offer you 10 answers to this question. 5 answers will support the Biblical side (with Scripture), and 5 will support the Cliqueical side (without Scripture). These points were delivered last night to my students in our last time of worship together. Acts 2:42-47 will serve as the main text for these notes.

1. The Church is Devoted to the Word: Biblical. Looking at verse 42, you will see a sweet sentence of joy that the early church shared. Luke writes, "And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers." I love this verse. Following Pentecost, the church was zealous toward the meditation and practical application of God's Word. Looking at this verse with a closer lens, you will notice 2 important words; "devoted" and "teaching." The former word can be translated as, "attending constantly," while the ladder word is translated, "doctrine." So, from these words, we can gather the fact that the church was constantly attending to the study and joy of doctrine. This is a beautiful picture of radical obedience and trust in the sufficiency of God's Word. What if we spent our collective energies on constantly attending to the study of God's truth? How would that change our churches? I believe we would see a shift from man-centered ideas to God-centered practice. It's interesting to me that the entire book of Acts is defined with just that; God-Centered, Spirit equipped practice of the advancement of His church.

2. A Clique wants quick solutions: Cliqueical. Above, we see the Biblical church devote time and efforts in constantly attending to the Word of God. A Clique that masquerades behind the church will strive for easy solutions and quick answers to their needs. From my angle, I see cliques very prevalent in church youth groups. A group of 15-20 church kids that devote all their time together will often want answers to questions that fancy their religious curiosity. For example, "How far is too far?" or "Is it OK for me to do this?" I've heard so many questions over the years from students that seem to like their youth group and have popularity as the goal for their age advancement. Cliques want quick solutions. They want to have comfortable answers in order to feel better about themselves. It's time for us to devote to the doctrines of our faith. Our questions need to be centered on areas such as: Who is God? And what is man? And Why the cross?

3. The Church is connected in fellowship: Biblical. Acts 2:42 offers us the vision of the early church; to live in fellowship. This word often gets diluted into the false assumption of eating or hobby sharing. We can go out to a fast food restaurant after a church service and talk about baseball...but does that define fellowship? Biblical churches look at fellowship at its core; to bind together for the goal of the Gospel and the edification of the redeemed. Sharing both joys and sufferings gives us a picture of the sweet definition of fellowship. Looking to Christ as the greatest prize on this earth naturally draws us to enjoy the presence of those that sing the eternal chorus. When churches fail in true fellowship, cliques run the halls and the mission is blurred. May we bind together in love (Colossians 3:12-14) and enjoy the Savior who is the head of the church (Ephesians 1:22).

4. A Clique has a closed circle of fun: Cliqueical. I remember growing up in a church that had a vibrant youth group. I remember the middle school years of rejection and ridicule (I admit, I was a bit annoying). I remember closed circles around me. I also remember being in closed circles. You see, student ministries can often have a few circles of friends that leave walls for those on the outside to only hear the noise from a distance. I still regret the closed circles I embraced at the cost of others' pain. Cliques are closed circles. It's almost like coming to an intersection with no options for any turn. If our churches are full of closed circles of relationships that seek selfish gratification with excluding the Gospel...then our mission is tainted. May the Spirit lead us out of our comfortable circle of friends and reach those that are outside the camp as Hebrews 13:13-14 beautifully challenges.

5. The Church has a great reputation: Biblical. Acts 2:43-44 simply reads, "And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common." This verse jumps off the page at us with the exciting thought that at one time...the church had a great reputation! Looking at verse 43, we can see the response of those outside the camp...they were in AWE! What??!!! Luke is right. The church was living in Biblical soil which gave the sweet fragrance of God's grace to those around. What have we done wrong? From all the programming and useless spending...we have made a system that looks too much at the clique instead of the mission. The Spirit was at work. People responded with awe. Unity was visible. What do we have in common? It's hard to think that the answer to that question could define a clique more than a Biblical church.

6. A Clique gives a bad name: Cliqueical. I remember my days of traveling to churches and serving at various youth retreats. I remember the lasting impression I received from a church while working camp. This church came with obvious divisions. The youth minister's arrogance and attitude revealed some of the source. In just 5 days of camp, if my memory serves me correct, this group had at least 5 conflicts...with only 20 total in the group! Cliques leave bad names. If people walk inside our church doors and see divisions birthed from pride and unrepentant sin...we will give them the memory of a clique. If pastors or other leaders live with pride and unrepentant sin; religious cliques can form. Some cliques will spark disunity with others. Some will try to change things. Some will walk away. What kind of name does your church have in the community?

7. The Church is active in meeting needs: Biblical. Luke writes in Acts 2:45, "And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need." Churches live with the anticipation to meet needs. Our primary need is to reach the lost with the saving Gospel of our Lord. The primary need is defined in love with the physical need of helping others. We should be on the front line with the issues our world is facing today. Children dying from preventable diseases, women abandoned by their abusive husbands, orphans left without hope, elderly forgotten, etc. The early church was known for staying behind during times of great disease in order to assist others. Many died in their efforts of taking care of the sick. They were zealous in the advancement and application of the Gospel. In centuries that have separated us from this verse...what has happened? It seems that mission spending is often put at the bottom priority of the list with the disclaimer of specific restrictions to follow. May we open the doors and show generous Gospel-saturated truth and love to our dying community around us!

8. A Clique wants needs met: Cliqueical. Ok, I said it. Cliques come with a list of needs. We tend to have many high-maintenance folks that attend our churches. As churches exist for meeting needs for the lost...cliques exist for having their needs met. I would argue that having certain needs met in the church is Biblical. Hospital visitations, counseling, intercession ministries, etc. I would argue also that those fall more in line with the Biblical understanding of fellowship. Cliques want their agendas on the table...and applied. They want programming that offers rewards and prizes to satisfy the ego. They want the best any church can offer in order to hide their sin under the umbrella of comfortable acceptance. What has gone wrong? May our only needs me found in the sufficiency of the Savior and His Glorious Gospel!

9. A Clique wants comfortable and ordinary religious routine: Cliqueical. What if we had preaching to start the service with ALL the music to follow? What if we decided to have 1 Sunday in which we didn't gather corporately to worship, but rather focused on mass evangelism? What would happen if we slashed our professional expectation of routine worship and had open time of simple silence? What would happen if we held others accountable for their sins as an act of worship? I can tell you what would happen from the aspect of a clique-run church; rebellion. We tend to like our normal routine of religion. We tend to have uneasy feelings when new changes are brought and people we don't recognize join the church. This has to stop. Cliques like things the way they are...as long as their circle of friends aren't impacted. Churches follow the teachings of Scripture and live with wreck less joy over the glorious unknowns each day brings. Churches read passages like Matthew 6:25-34 and find comfort in the sovereignty of the Lord and not the routine of man's failed leadership.

10. The Church worships and the lost are redeemed: Biblical. Finally, Acts 2:46-47 reveals, "And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved." The church simply found Jesus to be the most worthy name to proclaim. The church found radical faith in His teachings...and they actually did them. I truly believe the church had worship as her focus; which led to the salvation of many. When the church finds nothing more satisfying than the adoration of praising God; the lost will see genuine joy and obedience is done as a response to love. Romans 5 will be proclaimed in such a way that the Gospel will be relevant...because the Gospel is lived. The Church worships and the lost are redeemed. The Lord accepts our worship and saves the lost. He receives the honor. He receives the praise. He receives the bride as His token.

So, what is your church: Biblical? or... Clique...ical?

Soli Deo Gloria!

Dave

Monday, May 10, 2010

A Hidden Splinter



I hate splinters. I hate the way a cool evening barefoot walk on my back porch ends with Brooke helping pick wood out of my skin. I hate it when a splinter gets in my skin and time passes before it can be pulled out. Have you ever noticed that the longer you keep a splinter in, the more it hurts? The longer you wait to remove the splinter, the more dangerous it becomes as it buries itself more into your skin. Splinters must be recognized and removed. If they are ignored, they can cause serious infections and even allergic reactions. Ok, enough of my attempt to teach anything about our bodies...

Pride is like a hidden splinter that grows into thorny branches all over our body. Imagine the pain of a splinter and multiply that to equal branches made of them...all over your skin. That thought should hurt! Pride begins with our attempt to find self-glorification over the worship of our Lord. This can be found in anything from our attempts to being the center of attention, to denial of biblical repentance over known sin, to believing our views and opinions are the only ones that matter, to refusing to accept help with our own depravity. There are more ways to look at pride, but these are some to serve my point in this post. Pride is a hidden splinter that buries into our souls and causes pain like no other. Unlike splinters that we get by wood, glass, plastic, or medal; the splinters of pride impact others. It's almost like once we receive the entrance of our splinter; someone near us receives it as well. Pride rubs off on others in a way that causes disunity, distrust, and division. Churches that crumble often begin the inward explosion by the refusal to see the problem...either from her leaders or members. Both fall into the trap of a hidden splinter; pride.

I like how CJ Mahaney writes on this subject. In his great book Humility: True Greatness, he writes, "Pride takes innumerable forms but has only one end; self-glorification. That's the motive and ultimate purpose of pride - to rob God of legitimate glory and to pursue self-glorification, contending for supremacy with Him." (Mahaney, 32). That's the hidden splinter! We can respond to the sin and pain of pride by ignoring its reality...but the longer we tally, the worst affect it brings. What are you doing today to actively remove the hidden splinter of pride in your life? Trust me, it's there. I have it and have to daily repent of it in order to celebrate in the grace of my Great Physician's touch of removal. I hate it. I hate the way it hurts me and others. I want to fully acknowledge its presence in my life and find the daily need for its removal. I hope more will join me.

Some helpful Scriptures I have found on this splinter.



"When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom" - Proverbs 11:2

"Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. ... Pride
goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall" - Proverbs 16:18

"One’s pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor" - Proverbs 29:23

"God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up" - James 4:6-10

How can you get rid of this splinter? First, acknowledge it's there! Second, seek its removal. Third, be careful to not walk in such a way that it will return. Refusing to acknowledge your sin is the work of pride. Refusing to remove your sin by true repentance is the work of pride. Refusing to walk in the light of the One who offers removal is the work of pride. I strongly recommend you to examine your life and own up to whatever you find to be self-glorifying.

One final note of encouragement; be careful with your view of humility. We tend to think of humility is only defined in our broken seasons and trials. I believe Biblical humility is acknowledging the position of our Lord and gratefully living in our position as worshippers. William Law writes, "You can have no greater sign of confirmed pride than when you think you are humble enough." Be careful. Even boasting in walking with no fear of splinters can surprise you. Just a few days ago, I received a splinter by pulling weeds. My definition of splinters grew that day.

Soli Deo Gloria!

Dave

Monday, May 3, 2010

2 Friends serving as mints

When I get nervous, I have to put mints in my mouth. It's a strange thing, but the mints calm my stomach down...which prevents me from giving up whatever is in me! I know, TMI. Anyways, mints have always served as a much needed relief from something big to come. The toughest moments of my life bring a necessity for mints; the hardest come with preaching. There's just something about standing in front of a body of people with the task of bringing a message from God's Word that makes me shake. I love preaching. It terrifies me. I need mints.

This past Sunday, I needed mints. I stood before my church family and announced my resignation and future plans for ministry in Alabama. Before I walked to the stage, I had my mints. They helped. During the first service, I downed about 10 mints before walking to the stage. During the second service, something happened that overcame my need for mints.

I have 2 dear friends named Brad and Ben. Before I walked to the stage to announce the saddest news I've given in a long time...my friends sat next to me. I had their support. I had their brotherhood. I had no need for mints. I had friends that supported me during a time of much anxiety and nervousness.

Friends are better than mints. We need them to stand next to us during trials and seasons. This past Sunday, my gracious Lord showed me more beautiful meanings behind Proverbs 27:17 with 2 dear friends that gave support to me that weighed far more than any mints could even compare. I'm grateful for them. They sharpened me (from Proverbs 27:17). They served as my mints. More than that, they acted like family.

Soli Deo Gloria,

Dave